tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post3261672265458058887..comments2024-03-11T16:39:12.344-05:00Comments on Once A Knight ...: Fallen Warrior ... TreyNico Van Thynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-28361133406021227012019-05-17T17:12:29.352-05:002019-05-17T17:12:29.352-05:00From Gary Nicholson I grew up with Trey, my family...From Gary Nicholson I grew up with Trey, my family moved to Texas right before my junior year at Woodlawn. I to went to college but in Texas ended up in the Army and returned to finish at UT. I received the news about Trey when I was overseas in the Army. It was one of the saddest days of my life. I visited the wall in D.C. Trey was the first one I went to see. I also had people with me and had to go by myself. The wall is a very sad place but I am glad they built it. Trey was a fantastic person I do not think I have ever met anyone else like him. I think of him often. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00891876792583073337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-59483722745894895902015-11-23T18:12:54.458-06:002015-11-23T18:12:54.458-06:00From Nancy Megas: I've never seen the Wall in ...From Nancy Megas: I've never seen the Wall in person and not sure I want to. So sad to lose Trey Prather. I did not know him personally -- only from a distance, but I admired and respected him. Once while walking through the cemetery looking for my parents' grave I found a marker with his name on it. Through tears I sent him a thank you by prayer. I felt his presence and his love for his country and his fellow man.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-54482166296636373092015-11-23T18:11:08.047-06:002015-11-23T18:11:08.047-06:00From Ronny Walker: Humbly I say thank you for rest...From Ronny Walker: Humbly I say thank you for restoring/recalling our memories of “good times and good people.” My son who does movies had a tagline in one he did called “Judges." It said, “THERE IS NO PEACE…ONLY GOOD AND EVIL…KNOW WHICH SIDE YOU’RE ON.” Some of the comments on your blog make me think that’s where we are today. Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-10393793749608366902015-11-22T21:48:36.582-06:002015-11-22T21:48:36.582-06:00From Kathy Driver Green: My husband and I went to ...From Kathy Driver Green: My husband and I went to the Wall and I saw Trey's name; it brought tears to my eyes. My husband is a Vietnam veteran and it was hard for him, too. Right now he is suffering from cancer; the second time from Agent Orange.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-68999439979420997252015-11-22T21:46:22.888-06:002015-11-22T21:46:22.888-06:00From Jan Prothro: Wonderful memories of my buddy T...From Jan Prothro: Wonderful memories of my buddy Trey, as well as his sister (Pou).Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-63464586164077918062015-11-22T21:45:18.062-06:002015-11-22T21:45:18.062-06:00From Shelia Jones: I do understand that. I cried w...From Shelia Jones: I do understand that. I cried when I saw it.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-43979017951132415232015-11-22T21:43:15.810-06:002015-11-22T21:43:15.810-06:00From Marcia Landers Wiseman: Larry never wanted to...From Marcia Landers Wiseman: Larry never wanted to see the Wall, too emotional.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-28803556087495062542015-11-22T21:42:32.716-06:002015-11-22T21:42:32.716-06:00From Shelia Jones: He was very special to all of u...From Shelia Jones: He was very special to all of us. That Wall has added significance for me. We moved to New Orleans. My senior class had 634 people and 150 were KIA or are still MIA. Rex Clinkscale from Woodlawn was one of them.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-79950945899297785312015-11-22T21:41:05.387-06:002015-11-22T21:41:05.387-06:00From David Oliver: The first picture I saw of the ...From David Oliver: The first picture I saw of the Wall was on the cover of "Time" magazine. Of all the sections they could have shown, they chose the area with Trey's name on it -- Henry Lee Prather III.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-35322074974992159752015-11-22T21:39:41.912-06:002015-11-22T21:39:41.912-06:00From Michele Shellye Abington-Cooper: My first tim...From Michele Shellye Abington-Cooper: My first time to see it was also in D.C. about 1990. It was on a night tour with 4-H professional from all over the country. I was looking for both Trey's and Mark Cline's names and standing next to a guy from Indiana with whom I had become buddies. He did not serve -- did not ask why because I knew what my reaction would be if he said he "dodged" -- but I could see he was visibly upset. We started talking about friends lost and he said something I will never forget: "You know, Michele, those of us who did not go for whatever reason, are haunted by these names. It is a little like survivors' guilt."<br />I have thought about that a lot.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-6405260295087062162015-11-22T21:31:17.018-06:002015-11-22T21:31:17.018-06:00From Mary Lou Thomas: Thank you for all the rememb...From Mary Lou Thomas: Thank you for all the remembrances of our dear friend Trey. I visited the Vietnam memorial in 1985 especially to find Trey's name. We lost a very special person. I was so lucky to grow up with him.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-25218410295122431962015-11-22T21:29:55.925-06:002015-11-22T21:29:55.925-06:00From Nancy Evans: I was a childhood friend of Trey...From Nancy Evans: I was a childhood friend of Trey's and knew his grandparents. It is Haynesville thing. Still think of him often after all this time. Just wished the same thing for Trey. (To Nick) thank you for your service and sharing your story. I was Class of '64 Haynesville. Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-88262166832501191972015-11-22T21:27:42.515-06:002015-11-22T21:27:42.515-06:00From John Marshall: Interesting and well-written p...From John Marshall: Interesting and well-written piece by Nick.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-12536827010981431682015-11-22T21:01:54.455-06:002015-11-22T21:01:54.455-06:00From David Worthington: As a Vietnam veteran, than...From David Worthington: As a Vietnam veteran, thank you for sharing this piece. It moved me and I understand this soldier's dilemma. It is hard to be around the Wall when you have friends and acquaintances whose names are on there. Even so, I am grateful for "The Wall" and what it stands for. When I have been to<br />Washington, D.C., I have seen all the memorials, except for the World War II memorial, which was opened just a few years ago. <br />Here in Monroe, I am a volunteer with the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum. We have hosted a "traveling version" of the the Vietnam Memorial Wall three times: 2010, 2012, 2014. We have done it the week before Veterans' Day each time, and it was always an amazing week. Each time, we had around 10,000 visitors come see the Wall in the course of each week. The stories I heard and the people I met made the experience worthwhile. It reinforced for me the value of "honoring our fallen soldiers" and working hard to "never forget them." <br />The ground around the museum is just a field of grass, but when that Wall is on it, that field becomes sacred ground as we honor the names and memories of 58,000-plus soldiers. My role has been to enlist counselors<br />willing to volunteer to work at "The Wall" while it is officially here. We do that 24/7 for eight days. Helping a family member, or some veteran find the name of their friend or loved one on the Wall is a special privilege.<br />Helping them "etch that name" on some paper for a keepsake is also a special privilege.<br />I still have a Vietnam friend that I played baseball with at Northeast [Louisiana University] who cannot bring himself to go to "The Wall." He was in the 101st Air Calvary (infantry) and lost a lot of friends. He told me that he is able to sleep at night, and doesn't have any deep stress disorders, but he knows that people have to handle their post-war trauma in different ways. He goes to 10-year reunions with his old outfit, and they have times for sharing, which is therapeutic, but he won't visit "The Wall." Each soldier handles it differently.<br />I have a piece of paper in my desk here at home, on which I etched Trey Prather's name, back in 2012, from the Traveling Memorial Wall here in Monroe. There were other Shreveport names that I found and bowed my head and thanked God for their service to their country as they tried to defend freedom for another small nation that was being oppressed.<br />Our world is a crazy place and why is there this "spirit of conquest" that various people groups of the world, seem to be afflicted with? To many, my answer might sound too simplistic or absurd, but I believe in my deepest self that all wars are rooted in the evil desire of selfishness, which manifests itself in the desire to rule and control and dominate others, all the while attempting to amass as much wealth for one's self as is possible. The "wealth" might be symbolized by the possession of gold, land, large flocks and herds, possession of numerous stocks, powerful armies, oil, and countless other status symbols from the materialistic<br />perspectives of fame and fortune.<br />The Bible certainly speaks a lot about "peace," both the Old Testament and New, and I suspect the "holy writ" of Hinduism, Islam, Buddhism even mentions it a lot, but why is it so "elusive?" Again, I point to the "selfishness" of mankind. In spite of all the good that is done in the world and in spite of all the generosity we see, there seems to be a constant war with evil: drug cartels, drug traffickers, sex traffickers, unscrupulous businessmen, and those who want to oppress others. I don't think it will ever end until God decides to pull<br />the curtain down on human history.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-30894244962228026232015-11-22T20:45:53.755-06:002015-11-22T20:45:53.755-06:00From Frank "Skip" Lytle (USCG, Vietnam 1...From Frank "Skip" Lytle (USCG, Vietnam 1969): First time I went to the Wall I looked up Trey and other lost friends, I could not hold the tears back. Every time I have been there -- same tears, even to this day. I played football with Trey at Oak Terrace, left Shreveport and went to high school in Houston. Never saw Trey again, but I remember him like it was yesterday.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-70450930168874258952015-11-22T20:39:51.660-06:002015-11-22T20:39:51.660-06:00From Larry Powell: I'm glad you followed up wi...From Larry Powell: I'm glad you followed up with this. It's important that people remember the challenges of that era and remember that many people rose above the awfulness. Geez, what a mixed-up time that was ...Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-4161443701364810502015-11-22T20:38:07.838-06:002015-11-22T20:38:07.838-06:00From Raleigh Whitehead: My goodness. The first tim...From Raleigh Whitehead: My goodness. The first time that I visited the Wall was probably in 2003. A friend of mine from Louisiana Tech, Jim Fondren, had retired after 28 years in the Air Force and he was my guide. The first name that I looked up was Trey. The second was Mike Varnado from Ferriday, La. I remember getting somewhat choked up after looking at that Wall. Jim gave me the space to look up those two. <br />One of these days, I'm going to take Sue there to see the Wall. She and Mike had briefly dated at one time.<br />Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-51423114084350568312015-11-22T20:12:57.559-06:002015-11-22T20:12:57.559-06:00From Mary Greer Norquist: Thank you for sharing th...From Mary Greer Norquist: Thank you for sharing this again. The Vietnam War and the loss of our high school hero was a terrible dark time. Each time I've been to the Vietnam Wall I'm so overcome with sadness that I just can never go another time.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-67519082080965521942015-11-20T20:30:08.870-06:002015-11-20T20:30:08.870-06:00From Judy Kegerreis: Thank you for sharing this st...From Judy Kegerreis: Thank you for sharing this story. I will always remember Trey from our days at Woodlawn. I have been to the Vietnam Wall in Washington D.C., several times and I always go to the section with Trey's name. It is so moving you cannot help but get emotional.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-4164058154644672212015-11-20T09:31:07.718-06:002015-11-20T09:31:07.718-06:00Thanks Nico. Great, great memories and I think yo...Thanks Nico. Great, great memories and I think you should write the book. Have a great one. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10700659347321052614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-91937269294688008512015-11-20T08:41:03.030-06:002015-11-20T08:41:03.030-06:00From Nick: Glad I came across this. Brings back ol...From Nick: Glad I came across this. Brings back old memories. <br />Our lives paralleled a good bit. I was a manager, trainer and statistician at Bossier High School (Class of '64). I also ran a little track and cross country. Loved athletics, but other than being able to run all day, I was not very "athletically gifted" unless you count my prowess as a good blocking dummy. However, I never would have gone to college if not for football. I wanted to be an athletic trainer and about halfway through my senior year, Coach George Nattin (basketball) stepped in and started talking to me about going to LSU and working with Dr. Marty Broussard, who was THE athletic trainer in the country at that time. Coach Nattin was an all-conference point guard at LSU and he knew my determination and work ethic.<br />Bottom line is in about five months, I went from looking for a job to preparing to go to LSU. Like Trey, my dream didn't work out (my fault), but it got me into school and started on a path.<br />From there my life somewhat paralleled Trey's. I spent two years at LSU majoring in physical education, where I met many fine athletes. I remember things like Freddy Haynes being my sparring partner; Maxie Estay being my wrestling opponent, and gymnastics with the world tumbling champion. I also remember not paying enough attention to my studies and having something which was barely over a C average. Like Trey, I ended up in the Marine Corps in 1967 and in Vietnam in 1969.<br />But I grew up in the Marine Corps and learned the value of a good education as well. I returned to LSU, changed majors to electrical engineering, and finished up with a 3.5 GPA. The difference was the work ethic I had from the beginning, the initial experience at LSU and the discipline from the Marine Corps.<br />About the (Vietnam) Wall, it's hard. The first time I visited I was in D.C., I knew I couldn't do it with anyone and my wife was with me, so I simply walked on and left her behind as I quickly looked it over.Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-59675951098392897252013-11-22T13:59:16.922-06:002013-11-22T13:59:16.922-06:00From Larry Powell: Nico, when I came to work at Th... From Larry Powell: Nico, when I came to work at The Times in the summer of 1968, I was astonished at the festival of quarterbacks in the area - Joe Ferguson at Woodlawn, Bert Jones at Ruston, James Harris at Grambling, Terry Bradshaw at Louisiana Tech -- it was an astounding collection of fabulous talent. And no matter what anybody said about any of them, there was always someone in the room who said, "Yeah, so and so is great, but you should have seen Trey Prather. He was the best of them all." <br /> I always thought it was one of the most heartbreaking stories, a prime example of all of the circumstances in that era that led to the deaths of so many people with promise. <br /><br />I don't know - maybe the time for such a recollection has passed. Still, I'm just enough of an old peacenik to maintain a little hope that humans will improve and learn from mistakes and history. Nico Van Thynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07072351355184106484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5125402567351329247.post-61273230664620478952012-02-21T14:46:31.067-06:002012-02-21T14:46:31.067-06:00Another really good read. Nice job on what was obv...Another really good read. Nice job on what was obviously an emotional and difficult subject.Richeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10502941587589404267noreply@blogger.com